Brother speaks to grief and forgiveness
Hunter Metcalf, Austin’s brother, delivered an emotional and direct statement, addressing Anthony face-to-face and asking him to look him in the eye. He spoke about his struggle over the past year to forgive, leaning on his faith as he tried to understand why his brother had to die.
He emphasized the depth of his loss – not just losing a brother, but his best friend and the future uncle to his children.
“You took a son, a brother, a friend, my best friend from this world,” he said. “… You took someone away from me who was supposed to be an uncle to my kids… Now I want everything taken from you.”
He expressed anger, grief, and a desire for Anthony to live every day with the weight of what happened. “You let the devil take over in that moment,” he said. “… Eventually your name will be forgotten, but my brother’s memory will live on.”
Hunter said his brother’s memory will endure long after Anthony’s name fades, and he closed by describing the values he and Austin shared: loyalty, respect, and kindness.

Dad speaks of loss, rage and resilience
Jeff Metcalf, Austin’s father, spoke through deep emotion as he described his son as “boy, twin, son, leader, true warrior.” He recalled early memories – Austin grabbing his finger as a baby, catching his first fish, and taking his first buck – and said, “Watching him grow up through the years went way too fast.”
He praised Austin’s athletic talent, telling him, “I truly believe you had a great career ahead of you,” and “Your intensity on the field showed the leader you were.”
PH๏τos of Austin appeared on a large screen as his father explained that the family had created a scholarship in his memory “so people know what it’s like to be a leader.”
He said he was proud of Austin’s faith but devastated by the future that had been stolen from him.

“The saddest part is we don’t get to see you achieve all your goals… We were robbed,” he said.
Turning to Anthony, he told him not to look down and called him “despicable.”
He condemned public reactions, saying, “The public’s response sickens me… The moral decay is frightening.”
He insisted the case was “never about race” and pleaded, “Please don’t make it about race.”
He described the harᴀssment his family endured, including repeated swatting, and said his son’s death “destroyed the person I used to be.” He added, “My son’s death didn’t just break my heart; it broke my nervous system… People will think grief is sadness; it’s not, it’s rage. Pure unfiltered rage.”
Looking directly at Anthony, he said, “You failed your parents, you failed yourself, and you failed society… You don’t belong in this community.”
He pounded the podium as he continued, “You can’t even look me in the eye right now, but you can stab my (expletive) son in the heart.”
He ended with, “RIP Austin Metcalf, love pops.”